hiro is definitely in a stage. a BAD stage, a three-year-old stage. it sucks. lots of screaming and melt downs. i have to put him in time out a lot, or calm him down. sasha is a bit of a follower, too, so if i ask them to pick up toys, hiro says no, then sasha says no. *sigh*
hiro and sasha are continuously under foot in the kitchen--literally. they lie in the floor. i nearly stepped on them four times while trying to make breakfast. my kitchen is tiny *mustn't bitch about house* and i got so mad at them! so, big tantrum from hiro. i told him that if he calmed down, didn't shout or have another fit, we would go to the toy store and get a kitchen for him and sasha. sadly for him, he fought with sasha, screamed a lot and hit her, so we didn't get the kitchen today. from time to time i heard, 'go to toy store and get hiro kitchen.', but i had to remind him that we couldn't go, because he had a fit after we talked about not having a fit. i don't know if i'm doing the right thing, but it feels like rewarding bad behavior if i go ahead and get the kitchen after all the screaming and hitting he did today. *sigh*
we have no juice or milk now, because i couldn't get them to get dressed, so i guess we're down to tea and water only tomorrow. i think it's gonna get rough.
January 15, 2025
12 hours ago
5 comments:
((Hugs))Good for you for sticking to your guns...it can be so much easier to just give in sometimes,can't it.Hope that perhaps today is the day that everyone behaves and you can go get the kitchen:)
i remember those days! heck they weren't so far away actually. what took you to japan? I don't think I know that? Any plans on moving back?
I can sympathise but instead of kids underfoot, I have 2 dogs - bulldogs at that - in my tiny kitchen!
Hope you manage to get a bit more peace today and get out for the milk and juice (and maybe the kitchen too).
man... that is one reason I don't do those if you do this then..
like if you do that one more time we are going to leave etc etc...
Because usually we are somewhere I don't want to leave!
Plus if you would of gotten the kitchen they would of been obsessed with it ALL afternoon! lol so yuck...
I say next time take away something that doesn't affect you LOL!!! or just do a time out and forget it.
Good parenting 101. Proud of you. I hope I can be that tough. I try to be with DS but god at two and a bit his is a fricken terror and sometimes I just give in. Must be stronger. Think Marina will be following in big brothers footsteps.
Good luck with it all. You are doing great.
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